You must have promised your partner that your love, affection and care will not change after the baby is born. You would have definitely spent some romantic nights, candle light dinners, passionate hugs and kisses and a new dreamy world during your pregnancy period. But hold on!!! The reality is different. One thing that you have to bear in consideration is that planning for a baby involves a lot of planning at your end and it is bestowed with responsibilities. The situation will be not same as before.
Going on for a reality check reveals that there is a need of concern among relationships falling apart after baby. In the new relationship of mother and child, you are more focused towards that little one. His little gestures, smiles and movements make you completely forget everything. But did you ever feel your partner needs your care too. He may feel ignored and isolated of your love. It is indeed not your fault, actually the demand of the scenario. Its feels heavenly, when that little life comes out from the womb. The feeling of motherhood cannot be explained but only experienced. Your love for the child is selfless and continues till your last breath. You can do anything to make your child smile. That’s the ultimate synonym for unconditional love. I know upbringing for the child requires many sleepless nights, working beside illness and
Your love for the child is selfless and continues till your last breath. You can do anything to make your child smile. That’s the ultimate synonym for unconditional love. I know upbringing for the child requires many sleepless nights, working beside illness and many more things on the list. You get tired at the end of the day but did you spare time for your beloved partner? This sounds not very important but mark my words that you need to give a little care to your partner as well. You can appreciate him on his work, praise him, applaud him and above all flirt with him as you did before the baby.
The relationship during pregnancy time you had with your partner was indeed the best and can be equated to your honeymoon and courtship period. But after that it is your responsibility to strike a balance between baby and partner. Here in this article I am listing out a few tips. Do follow them, to reignite that lost spark in your relationship.
- Flirt with him occasionally.
- Cheer him up when he feels lonely.
- Make him a part of your responsibility. Like ask him to play with the baby while you carry out the household works.
- Spent some quality time with him or as a family
- When the kid is grown up a little and can be left under his granny/guardian supervision, go out with your partner on date or a romantic dinner.
- Wear some good dresses to attract him.
The happier both of you will be, the happier the family it will be. Even there will be a positive effect on baby. He will learn love and care from you rather than being frustrated and quarreling all the time. As a husband, you should also understand the fact that, you are now a father also. There are certain responsibilities on your shoulders as well. It’s not
It’s not only mother who has to do the upbringing of the child but it’s a mutual effort. A child where parents love each other will be well behaved, adjusting, kind, loving and certainly have an understanding nature.